In this episode of the HerStory Podcast, host Kylie King welcomes April Summers, a relationship coach dedicated to helping successful women bridge the gap between professional achievement and personal fulfillment. April shares her deeply personal journey of living with generalised anxiety for 15 years and how “masking” her pain led to repetitive patterns in her relationships. Now a single mother co-parenting in the Hills District, April uses her experience to help women identify the subconscious wounds and attachment styles that keep them in the “fire” of relationship frustration.
April provides a refreshing perspective on modern dating and partnership, focusing on the transition from entertainment-based social media to raw, transformative coaching. She discusses the heavy toll of generational trauma and the “exhaustion” many women face when they carry the emotional labor of their households. This conversation is a call to move beyond intellectualizing our problems and start the real work of integration, presence, and authentic connection.
What You’ll Learn in Episode 29
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Why successful, ambitious women often struggle with a recurring pattern of partners pulling away after the honeymoon phase.
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The reality of “masking” anxiety and how past hurts or childhood wounds can create subconscious behaviors that push partners away.
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How healing your own internal wounds can directly shift the dynamics within your family and improve your presence as a parent.
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Why “staying in the fire” for too long is a common mistake and how to recognize when it is time to seek professional guidance.
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The importance of shifting from being an “entertainer” on social media to providing raw, impactful knowledge that truly resonates with your audience.
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How to navigate the weight of generational trauma and the importance of clearing past patterns so they aren’t projected onto the next generation.
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Practical advice on slowing down in a relationship to get curious about the true feelings hidden beneath everyday frustrations like “the dishes” or “the milk.”
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Why authenticity in marketing matters more than having a polished, perfect presence on every single social media channel.
Guest: April Summers
April is a Dating and Relationship Coach for women that want to feel confident in their own skin, release old patterns & behaviors so that they can attract their dream, forever relationship.
As a Professional Certified Coach with over a decade of experience in relationships, April has been coaching women around her 2 children aged 7 & 8 and is based in The Hills District, Sydney.
She uses Somatic healing practices & experiential coaching techniques alongside her natural ability to intuitively connect with her clients to gain powerful results.
After 4 years of playing the dating game clients have found lasting love in just 4 sessions with April Summers Coaching.
Find April:
Website: www.aprilsummerscoaching.com
Instagram: www.instagram.com/april.summers.coaching
Facebook: www.facebook.com/april.summers.coachin
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